I always have great fun when I go to a
fundraising auction dinner. Most have good basic food and an atmosphere that is
happy and festive. But the real fun is people watching! During a “silent”
auction it is fascinating watching people’s “strategy”! Some people “sneak
up” to the bid sheet, look around to see if anyone is looking and then
quickly write down their bid. If a bidding number is available, they use it
rather than disclosing their name! While some bidders may be “sneaky”,
others are “bold”! They walk up to the bid sheet, look around defying anyone
to challenge them and then boldly scrawl their name on the sheet! Then they
look around again telling anyone who will listen that they will “win”
this item! Once an initial bid has been made, most bidders become very
possessive when it comes to “their” item! They tell their friends
that it’s “theirs”. They jump up when anyone goes near “their”
item! If someone has the audacity to bid against them they become quite
defensive even “stock’ the offender
in extreme cases. And, if they lose, they become pouty and withdrawn (at
least for a little while)! It’s all in great fun and for a worthy
cause.
Live auctions can be even more entertaining.
Many times it’s like a boxing match! At first “opponents” just spare,
checking each other out. They make little bids and then stop as though they are
giving up, out of the bidding. Then they start again, bidding in a flurry!
Finally one of them many “throw” the “big bid”. They step up the
bid so high that they “knock” their opponent out of the
bidding! Sometime the “big bid” doesn’t knock the opponent
out. They just become more stubborn and start to borough in. The bids go higher
and higher until someone flinches and a winner is declared! The beautiful thing
about this type of bidding is that everyone wins! The audience wins because the
“fight’
has been great entertainment! The organizers win because the item that was bid
on brings a big profit for their cause! The winning bidder wins because he/she
won! The losing bidder wins because he/she didn’t! At the end of the evening
everyone goes home happy because they know that they have helped a “great
cause”!